Is it ok for someone in a relationship to go to bars

Like without you? Do you think it’s okay. When they’re friends go there to look for girls

Is It OK To?
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  • Sounds immature find someone who will invite you too. Get a cab no drink and drive. Offer the person something better at home if you know what I mean then they may not want to go to will bar.

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    • He goes cuz that’s what his friends do. He only goes every once in awhile. He doesn’t like going

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  • Yea do long as he isn't doing anything yo gather the girls attention, I trust him so I have no problem with him going to bars at any rate

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  • This is something many couples argue about. I cant say if its wrong or not but my committed partner and i dont go to bars without each other. Because why temp fate?

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    • What do you mean by “temp fate” ? Also my bf doesn’t go out often but if it’s a special occasion he will. And so he his this weekend, but I’m not over 21 so I can’t get in. Is there a way you think I can talk to him about it without him getting mad? I would really appreciate the advice. Because whenver he says he’s going out and I get quiet or mad he kicks me out and says he can’t handle it.

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      • Just my opinion. What do people do at bars? Get drunk and peopke make ALL KINDS of bad decisions while drunk.
        I think in your case you need a fake ID. Have any older sisters or friends who resemble you?
        In your case he probabky usnt going to do anything but I think you should tell him it bothers you.

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        • He doesn’t drink and really only goes there for like an hour/two tops . And I dk say that and he gets mad and says I don’t trust him

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  • If you cannot trust your lover to go to a bar (or anywhere else for that matter) then your relationship is doomed to failure before it gets going.

    People are capable of socialising without jumping into bed with the first person they find that is sexually attractive.

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    • My bf is addicted to porn and sex, he goes to massage places I’m pretty sure and “accidentally” called a ducking escort

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      • If he is that bad why are you with him? You state you are under 21, why tolerate it? If you really do want to be with him, finish him & tell him to get some help. When he sorts himself out then you could have a future.

        Is this the sort of shit you want to deal with every tim e you two are out of each others sight, for the next forty or fifty years?

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  • You've got to have a lot of trust and even then it's tough because everyone likes to mingle when they start drinking. Usually it's not a good mix.

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