Is it ok that my husband asked me to wear revealing clothes ?

Wear super sexy clothes that show my nipples when we are going out or when we have visitrs at our home and never wear panties he wearly turn on when others watch my boobs or my pussy he keep tell me that it so normal you are beautiful and you must show off and not ever be shy . Actually i admire it and ilove when he turns on .. But some people tell me that is not normal

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  • Encouraging positive self image is one thing, forcing you to be practically naked around him at all times is not. Make sure you aren't confusing the two.

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  • He sounds like a total douche. You're his wife for crying out loud, not some Barbie doll trophy for him to parade around town.

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    • But she seems like she likes it. Its possible that he gave her the idea and now she loves it. Should she still not do it?

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      • Well, whether she likes it or not, she asked if it's normal and I am of the opinion that it isn't. What guy who respects his gf/wife is going to ask/tell her to keep her tits and ass hanging out for house guests? And what self-respecting woman will actually do it, even voluntarily? I couldn't imagine going up to my wife and saying, "Get your bra and panties off, some buddies are coming over."

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        • Yeah but for some couples that is a fetish/kink

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        • I don't think its normal either. But I don't think the guy is automatically a douche if he did not force her to and she genuinely likes it herself. And I would understand if you haven't, but I have seen a woman or two who likes this sorta thing.

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  • I love other guys looking at my wife full of desire in their eyes. If she is wearing sexy clothes then obviously more guys will look.

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  • With all that is being said here it does seem that this lady does enjoy the end result of her husband being 'turned on'. I do believe that she is seeking approval here and after all, 60% of voters think it is normal so far.

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  • Time will tell. You're okay with it now, but over time his behavior will annoy you. There's going to be days where you don't want to dress up or be leered at by friends/strangers, and I hope he understands your feelings when those days come.

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  • One word comes to mind, when I think of guys like him - chauvenist.

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  • He is acting very juvenile, and treating you like, object to impress the other guys around you, because he's an immature guy with low self esteem. He's being really disrespectful of you as a human being.

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    • Rose, I agree TOTALLY.

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    • But OP seems to like it. Is she genuine or deviced/pressured into liking it?

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      • Just cause someone likes something dr ors make it good, or okay. Plenty of diabetic people love sugar.

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        • I know, but in this case I would argue its fine. If she genuinly likes it and doesn't just feel like she has to. Diabetics get adverse health affects from lots of sugar. But I don't see a downside of OP dressing more explicitly.

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          • Sexual harassment, being degraded, being demeaned, being objectified, not being respected.

            OP's husband is a piece of shit, scumbag who treats her, and probably women in general as objects.

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            • Its not harassment if she likes it. Being degraded is not a problem if she likes it. Being objectified is not a problem if she likes it.

              My concern is different than yours. If she likes it, I'm fine. But I'm worried she feels coerced into liking it when she in fact does not, which would be considered abuse like you said.

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  • It's totally normal. Ive seen your type dancing at the club.

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  • If he's the one who provides, takes care of you, and calls the shots, then you be how The Man wants you to be. "He who pays the piper" and that kind of thing. If, on the other hand, you're typically the one that takes care of business and make all kind of decisions in the home and out, then tell him to shove it and make HIM show his nipples in public.

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    • She doesn't owe him exposure of something she's not comfortable with just because he may be the one who provides for her. That's a disgusting 1920s mentality.

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      • Why bother take care of her then? It's like taking care of a kid but without getting to have a say in how he behaves, looks, does, etc. With responsibility comes authority. If I provide the good stuff, like security and electricity, then I call the shots.

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        • Choosing a partner to go through life together is not the same relationship as parenting a child you twisted fuck.

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          • It has "responsibility" in common. If you have responsibility over anyone, then you're gonna have some authority on them as well. Goes for teacher on her pupils, for boss on his employees, and for old-fashioned husband on his wife.

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            • I really hope you never produce kids. You're probably the guy that says "If I pay for dinner, you owe me sex later." It's disgusting and you truly need mental help. Just because people did it 100 year ago doesn't mean it was okay.

              Dressing properly for work and for a significant other is completely unrelated.

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            • You seriously don't understand that in a marriage you are EQUAL? Every example you gave is of a superior vs. inferior. That is what's so disturbing.

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  • Cool!! If you enjoy it then who cares. It sounds kinky and fun lol but make sure to have other peoples consent if you dress too crazy... not everyone wants to see, and should probs try not to dress too slutty if there are kids around because it's illegal to expose yourself to minors

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  • It's normal.

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  • It's not abnormal. I like it when my wife dresses up to show her body off.

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  • Its normal.

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