Is it ok to be so clueless?
Soooo I am so frustrated. I love my bf but he is driving me crazy. In the first 10 months of us dating it was fun and exciting. Now we live together and have a child and he is driving me effing bonkers. I never saw this side of him and I am sure he hasnt seen this side of me. But he acts like a child. He is so unaware of life around him. Every time we go out with the stroller he almost always bumps into a curb or is lost in la la land. In the stores he stops in the middle of ailes, blocking ppl from passing through. Backs up without looking. Almost knocking over an elderly man. He trips over curbs, walks into walls. Omg so annoying. Why did you have a child with him you wonder ? Bec it was not planned and to me abortion wasn't right. He is a wonderful father. Caring and kind and full of love for her. He forgets where he puts everything. He leaves windows and doors open. Just walks in and forgets to shut them, all season long. I hate being cold. I am so not turned on by his behaviour. I am beginning to think I have an anger problem. I understand there are bigger problems in life and I have had intelligent bfs that were assholes but the stupidity really gets on my nerves. I am not sure if I am just being hormomal or if maybe I belong alone forever. Our daughter is 8 months old. I know having a child puts a strain on relationships so I do not intend to make any rash decisions as of yet. However I am at my witts end. Do I need to relax? Probably. I am just so annoyed by people who don't pay attention. Like wake the eff up. For the love of God help me.