Is it ok to break up if your girlfriends house is nasty?
well we have been dating for about 3 years now and she lives with her parents. her dad is never at the house do to work and her mom needs help do to health issues. they have a bunch of dogs and other pets that need taken care of and her mom just cant do it by her self. After a 1 1/2 years of dating she asked me to move in. I ended up moving out of my place and moving in with her... Anyways. we dont really fight and we get along just well but! here is the down fall. The house is just nasty. IM never really there because of this and i work 80-90 hours a week and i dont eat at the house do to this issue.. Her dogs shit and piss all over by the front door outside and it sits there for hours or even days and the dogs track it into the house and all over the furniture. the fly's and bugs are really bad. the dishes sit on the counter tops and get cleaned once a week or every other week at that. also the clutter is really bad old mail paper boxes and random other crap laying around and the dog also piss and sometimes shit in the house. the floors almost never get swept or mopped. and if so its only where the dogs piss or shit. the mop bucket rarely ever gets cleaned pissy water sitting in it sometimes... one day i seen a mouse or a rat and also im starting to see roaches ... im at the end of my rope should i move out or break up with her?