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Turns out my best friend is really hot (even though she's a bit dumb). She's got this perfect fuckable body. Is it ok to fantasize about her?
I don't think so, I had a very close male best friend for about 12 years, but I had to dump him, because one day he told me what he wanted to do to me. I had to distance myself from him as a friend, and essentially dump him, because I couldn't trust him anymore. It's sad, but I'm not comfortable remaining friends with someone who wants to be intimate with me when all I want is to be platonic friends.
Like an auntie relationship hehe
Who still has the hots for someone though after 12 years? Most crushes or even romantic situations don't last half that long.
Well, it wasn't my doing. This was a guy I would have gladly taken a bullet for, and loved like a brother, but I wouldn't share sexual intimacy with him if he were the last man on Earth!
No it is not that. It just seems like 12 years is quite a while for someone to want someone sexually.
Normal human male animal thinking.
Fantasizing about someone you think is hot couldn’t be more normal.
Well i would say find out, maybe she might have some though like you. the only way to know is to ask, but asking straight out might have effects you don't want especially if you value your friendship, so ask indirectly like playing around or something or attempt playful intimate touches now en then advancing slowly, i do believe if she does not share your thoughts she will give clues of rejection.
Relationships that stem from long-term friendship are more stable, both of you know each well and know what to more likely expect from the other. but on the other side if things go wrong you may loose your friendship, so decide which is more important to your cause things may not be the same after you do any romantic attempts on her
Well she is your friend so talk to her about her body. I'm sure she will appreciate it.
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