Is it ok to fantasize about torturing women

I fantasize about torturing women by strangulation

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  • ummm....like r u a troll?

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  • Normal : yes
    Okay : No
    Concerning for your mental health: yes

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    • It's not normal.

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      • I think it is. Wouldn't get a lot of people to admit to it though. Also what excatly defines normal? If 25 percent of people fantasize torchering women, does that mean its normal? A lof of people on here say being gay is normal so how high of a percantage do you really need?

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        • If 25% of people have this fantasy it doesn't make it normal, it only makes it it somewhat common, but it certainly isn't normal.

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          • Agreed, using that definition its not. But if you also use that definition, then having a penis isn't normal. Its just a question of where do you draw the line percentage wise.

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            • I think there is a certain connotation of the word normal that implies that normal is healthy as well. Those fantasies are not healthy, and thereby I assert that said fantasies are abnormal, and even pathological.

              As far as I'm concerned if I was seeing someone who was prone to having those sort of fantasies it would be an instant dealbreaker for me! I would not waste time telling the guy how wrong, or abnormal I think he is, I would simply distance myself from the person, ghost him, or maybe tell him that I don't feel anything for him, and need my space.

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  • Jeffrey dahmer started out fantasizing about choking men he was attracted to. He then began picking up dead animals and dissecting them. I'm sure you know what the next level was for him.

    Get help dude before your fantasies become something much worse.

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  • That's how most serial killers get started. They fantasize about torturing / killing women, or children.... then move on, to acting it out, on impulse, for REAL.

    If you can perceive it, you can perform it. Get this shit OUT of YOUR HEAD !!

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    • This! I completely agree with you!

      There are actually videos out there of that piece of shit, Ted Bundy, talking about how violent pornography made him what he was. I don't believe that it was entirely the pornography, because there are plenty of people who don't do any of those horrible things that have seen that garbage. However, I think that Ted Bundy, and others like him have certain predispositions, and were probably born as sociopaths/psychopaths. The pornography, fantasies and self-gratification probably just made the dark tendencies within him worse.

      I guess I do somewhat believe what he said, but also believe that he was desperate to blame something other than himself for the monster he was.

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      • I think he was far too psychopathic to feel any guilt regarding what he was so it's very possible that final interview captured his honest opinion. Psychopaths are common, but the fact that they could do those things without remorse doesn't guarantee a desire to; that comes from somewhere else.

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        • I don't think he felt any guilt. He was such a piece of shit.

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          • That's why I'm saying that he was likely telling the truth about what drove him to murder. When his execution was four hours away and he stood no chance of escaping again, he had nothing to lose and told the truth. I believe that he sincerely wished he had never encountered the material, not because he felt for his victims, but because he wouldn't be losing his life if things had gone differently for him.

            As a psychopath with an interest in law and politics, he probably would have ended up as a particularly shady lawyer or politician otherwise, but not as a murderer. Psychopaths like him often gravitate toward risk-taking behaviour because it allows them to feel on a level that they normally can't.

            That said, when psychopathy and sadism coincide from birth, there's basically no hope.

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            • Have you seen the video of the interview on YouTube? There's a part when he's talking, then the phone rings, and his face looks different like a break in character, or something. I bet he was hoping it was the governor on the phone, but ain't nobody calling for his ass; some people just need to fry in the chair!

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    • That's a load of crap. Did Edgar Allan Poe or Stephen King murder people?

      If you watch a movie and someone gets killed, does that make you a murderer?

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      • This poster has actually done this, to many women.....it's NOT a movie, or a script, or a book. He has actually choked/strangled women.

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  • would you fantasize about torturing me?

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    • Yes if your a female

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      • I am. I'm exposing my throat right now. I fantasize about guys fantasizing about hurting me. Something about the fact that they can't do it really gets me off.

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      • You should NOT fantasize about doing it to anyone!

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  • As a human being you have the innate ability and right to think creatively and use your imagination however you want.

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  • I have fantasies about Donald Trump giving Vladimir Putin a headjob.

    It doesn't mean it will come to fruition.

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  • So youre saying that (my) “fantasies” of rape and physical abuse towards others is secretly a desire to act out, therefore making me a violent abusive rapist. Duly noted

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  • I'm not a "spoungy soulless rich girl trying to sound mature wile your daddy pays all your bills and a guy fncks your fat a$$ all day that hansnt had deppression or worked a day in your life" . . . .

    As you put it.

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  • I thinj its the way you talk

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  • message-man,
    Who are you speaking to?

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  • Why are you even going to waste some time on this website shouldn't you be driving your million-dollar sports car right about now

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  • And you Gru up in a family where no abused took place

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  • "Oh I have strangled a lot of females more then I can count the first time was when I was 14".....

    ..... "by the time I was 15 I had to go live somewhere else she couldn't handle the violent attacks when we were alone plus the sadistic things I would y while I did it like I would always say I wanna crush your windpipe bitch and stop breathing whore and laugh" .....

    ...." I just want to crush a females throat as hard as possible or twist pantyhose so tight her eyes pop out awhile I laugh at her ".


    NOW THAT WE KNOW YOU HAVE ACTED on these thoughts, It is clear that you hate women.
    You want to torture, strangle, insult, and laugh at them, and it started at 14 years old. When you were 15, you were kicked OUT, because: "she couldn't handle the violent attacks when we were alone plus the sadistic things I would say while I did it".

    In one comment, you claim these are "FANTASIES", for 30 years, but in other comments, you literally describe how you have ATTACKED your real victims.

    So, you're full of shit, and keep changing your tune, to suit our comments.

    You HAVE harmed women, in the PAST, and I'm willing to bet you have continued to do so, regardless, of your changing " explanation(s) ".

    I wouldn't be surprised if you have possibly killed some women, and disposed of them, over the last 30 years.

    You are a MENACE, and THREAT, to society, specifically WOMEN !!

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    • Your a spoungy soulless rich girl trying to sound mature wile your daddy pays all your bills and a guy fncks your fat a$$ all day that hansnt had deppression or worked a day in your life.

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  • It's VERY revealing, and somewhat scary, to see some of the comments "coming out of the woodwork", when postings like this are written. Another reminder that our civilization isn't full of civilized people.
    Some of these comments are an annoying attempt at humor, while others are downright alarming. Still others, are practically encouraging violence.
    Those who have written deranged, and obnoxious answers ( AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE ) have spread your "philosophy" on other postings, with a common thread of violence, and disparaging ideas about women, and I thank god, NONE of you are MY neighbors.

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  • You mean like by playing an oboe into a Marshall stack?
    ...if so, nah. That’s epic.

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  • I think you've worded this very poorly. If you're essentially asking is it normal that you're a sexual sadist, then, if you're a guy, it's normal. If you have spontaneous, consistent thoughts about torturing women throughout the day then, on the other hand, it's not normal.

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  • Fantasize, yes it's ok... Normal, no.

    It could be a dominance thing.

    Is it a sexual thought? If so, find someone who likes that sort of thing.

    If it's random people, you might be on the path of being a murderer, do you mean strangling till they die? If not, it's purely a dominance thing...

    If it's anger, see a mental health professional and they'll give you something that might relax you.

    You could be a reincarnation of Jack the Strangler lol...

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  • Do you get a boner?

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  • Yes, you may
    But you always need consent first and then you can have fun

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  • You should not entertain these violent fantasies about women, because such thoughts are dark, and immoral.

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    • Ok to be clear I have had these fantasies for over 30 years and I have two children my son is 20 going into the Army and my daughter is 26 and she's a nurse I was married for 16 years I have had counseling and shrinks in my head I dint ask for these thoughts I just battle them and yes it is sexual

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      • You cant control thoughts. All you can do is be mindful of them. If you try to not think about something all that happens is you end up thinking about it more. There has been research done on this where they instructed people to not think of red volkswagens. It just made everyone think of them. The best thing to do is try to be mindful when youre having the thoughts. Dont indulge them and dont pay any attention to the content. You can note to yourself "thinking thinking". Also you can note the type of thought such as fantasizing, imagining, worrying, judging etc. As soon as youre aware of a thought it will disappear. Currently you are most likely becoming lost in the fantasy and only realising after. Try to recognise as soon as you have the thought. I guarantee you it will not last.

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      • Were you abused as a child?

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      • You said you were married for 16 years. Why did ya'll get divorced.

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      • I'm glad that you have sought help for the thoughts. If you gratify yourself to these thoughts the thoughts will never go away. You shouldn't gratify yourself to these thoughts, it's an unhealthy thing to do.

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        • Can't help it it turns me on I just want to crush a females throat as hard as possible or twist pantyhose so tight her eyes pop out awhile I laugh at her

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          • That's really fucked up, dude. Just because some thought turns you on doesn't mean that thought should ever be entertained! If you ever harm a single solitary soul I hope you get caught, then face swift, and harsh justice preferably at the hands of an angry mob.

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            • Thats harsh!!!!

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            • Oh I have strangled a lot of females more then I can count the first time was when I was 14 my step mom always wore turtlenecks and finally one day I lunged for her throat and squeezed it pressing my thumbs into her windpipe hard and she flipped out she couldn't breath and panicked and said don't ever do that again hasn't anyone ever told you to never squeeze that part of the throat I said yeah butch couldn't help it wanted to so badly i by the time I was 15 I had to go live somewhere else she couldn't handle the violent attacks when we were alone plus the sadistic things I would y while I did it like I would always say I wanna crush your windpipe bitch and stop breathing whore and laugh

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  • Like in a sexual way? Orr????

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