Is it ok to feel lonely?

Well it is bit long. So sorry for the long post. I m an Asian girl i have a abusive father and an ill mother. My father always try to impose restrictions and their so called rules to others. He never allow me and my siblings to stay out of home at night. He is so abusive that I can't share his deeds here and mother always become a victim of his cruel nature. I hate him so much. My siblings are also moody when they want something from me they talked nicely otherwise they also try to pull me down. I feel so lonely n depressed. It is ok to feel so.

Is It OK To?
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  • Just be strong and stick it out for your mother. It's unfortunate that she's ill and I'm terribly sorry to hear about your situation. I myself have siblings who only are nice when they want stuff and they are very selfish. I have an alcoholic and careless mother and she was married to a really strict and abusive man for almost 10 years and it was difficult to go through every day, I was always depressed and lonely. I never had anyone to talk to about anything or see. My mother wasn't sick, but you can get through it. Just support your mother and do everything you can for yourself and your mother.

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  • Don't worry. Pretty soon you're going to be an adult and you could live your life the way you want.

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    • Yes I will but I am only worried for my mother

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  • If you lonly I'll talk to ya I might be boring af tho but it's something

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    • Thanks for the concern it doesn't matter if u r boring or not but u have a very beautiful heart that's why I say that. I wanna share my heart out now I feel better

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  • your fadder making the rules . you need real man to tell you what to do.

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  • I feel the same way with gf right now. Thinking of breaking up with her. She is always screaming. I try to make her happy but I always fuck it up. When bad circumstances happen, does she always have to yell at me?

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    • You shouldn’t allow anyone to yell at you all the time. This shows immaturity and/or lack of respect. Tell her that you won’t listen to her when she’s yelling at you, but you’ll be happy to discuss things when she’s ready to be respectful. You don’t have to be mean about it, but you do have to mean it. I’ve seen so many good guys being berated by ungrateful females, and there’s just no reason for it. But the guys don’t stand up for themselves and that makes girls think it’s ok to act like that. If you put your foot down and decide NO ONE will treat you like that, you’ll find a girl who respects you for being a man with standards. Don’t let women (or anyone) walk all over you. It’s unattractive and unmanly. If you don’t put a stop to it - why should she quit? It’s up to you to end it. If you do break up, then the next gf set her straight the first time she yells. You teach people how to treat you. If they get away with yelling at you, then you’re basically saying it’s ok to mistreat you. It’s not. Be a man worth having. Someone who respects themselves is a much better catch than someone who has no respect for themselves

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    • No yelling at someone doesn't make the situation good she is basically a hyper kind of a person who can't even handle her anger so better to breakup from her. You have a choice to leave but my situation is different i can't leave my mother for them

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