Is it ok to feel uncomfortable around gay men?

I have a few gay kids in my neighborhood, but i feel uncomfortable around them. is it ok?

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  • I say yes because im unconfortable too.
    Im pretty sure there will be people saying that is homophobic but fuck them

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    • that's cause it is homophobic lol

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      • Wrong.

        ho·mo·pho·bic
        ˌhōməˈfōbik/Submit
        adjective
        having or showing a dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people.

        Being uncomfortable doesn't mean you dislike or have prejudice against someone.

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  • just dont be discriminatory, its okay to feel uncomfortable, as long as your =e not a dick about it.

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  • I never saw such men and never want to. Even this word makes me feel sick.

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  • I thought about being gay once. But, then I thought that it would just be a pain in the ass...................Sorry.

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  • most people are uncomfortable around homosexuals, it's just very few people are going to come out and say it for obvious reasons. it's human nature to feel unnerved by things that are different or "off", and homosexuals at a very small percentage of the population fit that pretty well.

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  • It's normal to feel uncomfortable around people who aren't like you that you aren't used to being around regularly. It's normal to feel uncomfortable, but that doesn't mean that it's okay to feel that way or treat them differently because of your irrational discomfort.

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  • I don't think it's normal unless someone is hitting on you.

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  • Why do you feel uncomfortable around gay men? They aren't going to pat your bottom as soon as they see you, or waste their time trying to seduce a straight guy.

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    • I've known quite a few gay men who really get off on the idea of having sex with or "turning" a straight man. it's a fantasy that kind of plays off of an attraction to masculinity and as a compliment to their sexual attractiveness

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      • Straight men have the same ideas & also get very frisky about thinking that their sexiness can turn lesbians into cock hungry nymphs. Its a very popular fantasy. I have been fortunate to see men try & use their 'charm' to do so.

        Once it resulted in a slapped face, the slap itsself could be heard for a quarter of a mile & another time it was a kick in the bollocks & a lecture.

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        • Yes. Some guys who think about how with many threesomes where the girl is getting off on the other girl just as much as with the guy, that means that any lesbian can turn into wanting a guy. What they don't get is that those girls in the threesomes are bi. A total lesbian is not going to want a dick, there's a difference between a bi girl and a lesbian. Some guys think all lesbians are really bi, they're wrong.

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          • Some men should stop thinking with what is between their legs & start using what is between their ears.

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  • Are you uncomfortable around women you’re not attracted to as well?

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    • Some women get uncomfortable around men they're not attracted to, usually the hot ones, but part of that is due to so many men always automatically getting so hard up whenever they see a hot girl.

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  • As long as you dont do any hateful actions towards them its fine.

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  • If they're effeminate arse bandits then ye. Effeminate arse bandits are innately weak. If they're strong butt pirates though then fearuth not. They are real men despite trudging down the dirt track.

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  • how do you know they are gay, if two boys have sex with one another thay are having sex , not gay sex. its only the adult thats going to prefer one sex over the other. you cant label sombody as gay like that. they might havent even tried pussy yet . Every boy growing up does things like butt fuck and suck cock its just part of growing up.

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  • Perhaps 15 years or more ago, I would have said absolutely it’s normal to feel uncomfortable... but this is 2018. I myself am not gay, but I do not feel uncomfortable with hanging out with someone who is gay. Get to know them, they are really decent people

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  • I would personally really feel uncomfortable if the gay person in question liked me.

    I don't care what a person does but I can kind of see where your coming from with it.

    So I wouldn't say its not normal that's just how you feel.

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  • In spite of all the new gay rights and liberal propaganda, homosexuality is not normal to the human species and never will be. I am an atheist and this has nothing to do with religious beliefs.
    It's normal to be uncomfortable around people who are abnormal. But as long as they don't hit on you and don't take no for an answer, Just ignore them and leave them be.

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  • Why do you feel uncomfortable around them? Are they doing anything to you? Harassing you? Following you? Or are they just being gay? No, it is not normal to be uncomfortable around someone just because they are gay.

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  • Yes it's normal because you aren't gay.

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  • Yes it is normal. I also feel the same when I meet a gay cashier. It makes me anxious as hell

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  • It's normal.

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  • It's ok, lots of men are unconfertable around gays. It's ok, just know you have no reason to be

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  • I'm still weirded out by some people who I didnt know who were gay, who I find out are gay

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  • I'm gonna go with not normal bud. Why do you feel uncomfortable around them?

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