Is it ok to have a freind like this?
Rey and I have been best friends for 5 years. Last September we started Junior high. I my freind is a different person from what she used to be. First she started what she called a war with a few guys in my class. The one that was by far the worst was her war with a guy in my class name Tim. Tim and all her other enemies thought she was annoying but nothing else. With Tim Rey purposely tried to find times where she could insult him. She thought by doing this she was protecting her image and she was standing up for herself. She said she knew her logic is twisted yet she deosnt even try to change. Later Tim apologized to Rey and I thought this was over but Rey kept on finding times to insult Tim but he left her alone. All Tim would say to Rey was to leave him alone. Actually Rey stopped.
Rey has said before that pissing me off is fun. She always tries to annoy me so she could be happy. Normally it deosnt work.
Rey and I had also had an L.A project sometime during early November and we decided to write about a murderer cleaning up his room. I told some people and they thought it was alright. Later on Rey started to think that we would get suspended so she completely changed our paragraph. My teacher didn't care that we wrote about a murderer at first an date didn't care that Rey changed it. Before this happened Rey would yell in the halls about this and later this conversation happened. Rey asked me if she Ava and I could sneak into an old locker room that the school no longer used to eat lunch in. It was pretty cold outside and I was going to eat lunch in the courtyard. I told her that if a teacher found us they wouldn't be happy. Then all of a sudden she told me that so would writing about a murderer and then she stormed off and left me in the courtyard.
Rheanna would also hit me when ever she got upset at me or She would yell at me.
Later that month my dad and I went on vacation to Mexico. While I was there I decided that I would break up with Rey. I gave her all the reasons I didn't want to be friends anymore. She accepted it and d1idnt talk to me until I came back to Canada. Then she started texting me saying that the reason I broke up with her was because she liked anime and manga. She also called me a hypocrite saying I am also in the wrong. I replied to her saying it had nothing to do with her interests and she told me to fuck off. Later I apologized to Rey about making her feel that way. Later that day she started talking to me as if nothing had happened and we were still best friends. I didn't want to hurt her feelings so I listened. I really didn't want to be her freind but I couldn't tell her that because she was trying to cut her self and she wanted to die.
Soon we became real friends again. Rey tells me that I am the only reason she is trying to finish grade school.
Now Rey is enemies with Tim's freind Jake. Jake in my opinion is not a bad person he just thinks Rey is annoying because she talks a lot. Now Rey enjoys arguing with him because she feels like she isn't in anyone's control. She does it because she feels like it's what keeps her sane. Later I asked her why she was doing this and she told me this: I do it because I feel like I'm not in control. I know it's a stupid way of defending myself but I do it anyways. I know my logic is twisted. I feel like this is some sort of image thing. Shutting other people down makes me feel like I'm not in control.
Is it okay to have a freind like This? I don't know what to do.