Is it ok to make a move on a 17 year old girl when you are 24?

I've been talking alot with this girl that is very mature (mentally) for her age I look like I'm 18-19. Like people won't let me into clubs because they believe I'm a minor. I know It's legal but is it creepy?

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  • I’m not trying to be rude but yes this is weird, even if she is mature 7 years is a really big difference when you’re 17.

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  • Doesn't seem that bad to me.

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  • Wait until she's 18. Seriously. You could get in a lot of trouble.

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  • Its a weird one. If she were 18 and youre 25 that doesnt seem weird. Just because shes a minor it does seem odd. I would wait until shes 18 to smash.

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  • Yes it's ok. Legally it's not

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    • It's legally allowed to be sexually active after you are 15 in my country. So I would not do anything illegal but might be seen as creepy from perhaps her parents and friends

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      • You should never concern yourself with what other people think of your romantic attachments. AT ALL. Your only considerations should be about whether this is fair to her, safe for you, and or potentially disruptive to her family. In order to keep things comfortable you should avoid having relations with her until she either turns 18 or has introduced her to your family as her boyfriend. With that thought out of the way, her comparative level of maturity and whether it matters is for her and you to decide and no one else. And frankly there is absolutely no reason you should give a damn so long as you treat her well and she is happy.

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      • If it were my daughter id be more concerned whether her boyfriend is going places or not. If you have a good job and you seem like you're on a good path I'd be quicker to accept it. If you were 7 years older and unemployed I would be pissed tho

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  • When I was 21 I was with a 16 year old for a bit.

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  • I dont think this is too much of an age gap at all but you can't legally have sex so you may have to wait for that part. Elvira Presley had his eye on Priscilla when she was 14 and married when she was 16. If it's good enough for Elvis. People are weird about age. I guess if you were 40 would be a bit different but 24 is still a baby.

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  • Dude, as long as she is fine with it, and dont get creeped out, do it

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  • If it's legal where you're at then don't worry. The age difference there is certainly not a big one. I think girls are more mature than guys anyway.

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  • Don’t do anything less you trying to put a ring on it

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  • Its absolutely fine if it's legal.

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  • Dont do it, if there is any kind of rift between you two you can end up with statutory rape.

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  • Go for it.

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  • Yea I would just stick to whats legal. Like I have said on other posts, I would have no problem fucking an 18 year old when i'm 75! An adult women is an adult women.

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  • I've been with a 17 year old girl for a bit when I was 23 and I thought it was normal.

    If she's legal, you're good.

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  • Go with what the law in your area says. Where I come from this and legal so it's not anyone else's business

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  • Very common for a potential pedophile to think a 17 year old girl is matured. And to include in the mindset that you look 18. You're disgusting and should be locked up honestly.

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  • It’s okay! Don’t feel conflicted, live your life to the fullest while you can....don’t worry about what anyone else thinks! Good luck!

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