Is it okay to feel sexually unattractive?

Stop and think about how many people in your life you actually like and want to be around. Maybe 1 in 10 if your lucky.

How many of those people are female. Roughly 1 in 2.

Now how many of those females ( 5% of everyone we meet) are you physically attracted to? Maybe 1 in 10 again? So one half of 1% are candidates and both people need to feel the same.

The odds of finding someone we like and want to have sex with is usually pretty dang small. Couple that with them having the same thoughts and it's tiny.

It amazes me any of us actually hook up at all.

Its normal.

You sound like my type of guy. I would love someone who hasn't been with 20 girls.

It is normal to feel that way, but do not let it control you. A little bit of doubt is necessary so that you don't become arrogant, and self centered but you must learn not to show this.

Women are attracted to men who do stuff. Proactivity, assertiveness and self confidence is more important than your looks. Men are visually oriented but women are much less so. They generally seek a partner who can defend them and provide for them, so if you act like the first breeze will knock you over our scare you away that's not attractive. It's not your physique, as long as you're overall healthy, you are fine in that department.

I believe you simply need to learn how to look more confident, more active and basically fake it till you become it.

Welcome to the bottom of the barrel 19 year old. Guys we get progressively more valued as we get older topping out at 45. Women on the other hand hit their peak at 18. You are just seeing the contrast, wait on it and you are going to get another female.

Confidence goes a long way dude, bitches can smell desperation.

Time to start working out bud. Its healthy and it feels good. Nothing wrong with learning, but you gotta balance theory with practice.

You just have bad confidence problems.
You should be worrying on who YOU are interested in, not whether she is interested in you. Males who get too into a girl who has not already shown interest in them automatically turn her off.
Focus on what is good for YOU not whether you are good enough for some girl.

Yeah I also used to feel that way. You are still young, plenty of opportunities will come later and these will be more serious and meaningful relationships. Focus on studies for now, and take everything else as " experience."

Outside a year ago im 20 no one had ever even hit on me outside of online interaction wich doesn't really count. Let alone ever dated anyone. Yes it's normal, ypull find your partner

Be patient, you will find your mate.

Grow a beard, you'll look sexier.