Is it okay to not have to text everyday

So I am trying to date again. I have started talking to one guy but he wants to call and text all the time all hours off the night too. I don't mind talking but good grief not all the time. I can go a couple days and not hear from someone and everything is good, I miss one phone call and he calls me a jerk. Mind we haven't known each other a week yet.

My question is, is he being too clingy or am I in the wrong?

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  • Run fast !!! You don’t want a control freak like that ! It only escalates.

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  • It's wierd and creepy to want that much contact. Get rid quick before he escalates his behaviour even further.

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  • I told him to leave me alone. He texted again trying to make it seem like it was my fault he got angry. I told him bye. Hopefully I dodged a bullet but I'm worried he will keep trying to bother me.

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  • You need to set boundaries. If you're not comfortable, you're not comfortable. If I was in your situation I wouldn't be comfortable either. You barely know eachother. He needs to chill and be more respectful.

    There are major red flags here. He's abusive and clingy. He has no right to call you a jerk if you miss a call. Especially, after you've been so kind to put aside so much of your time trying to appease him. It hasn't even been a week yet and he's already pulling out shit like this.

    Does he know where you live? Does he know your full name? Block his number. If he keeps persisting use a freezer spell.
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  • Dude clearly has issues. Give his thugged-out ass a ultimatum or dump his muthafuckin ass. Is yo' relationshizzle online or pimpin up in person?

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  • You could just tell him to give you some space.

    Or that you'd like to just be friends and see how he reacts.

    Was he serious by calling you a jerk or was he just playing around?

    Some people might be hard to tell.

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    • No he means it. He just cussed me out for missing a call.

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      • That's kinda big red warnings going off. It's perfectly normal to not do that stuff all the time. My most controlling ex did that same thing and she openly admitted to me after it was over that she was trying to keep me as focused as possible and to control me as much as possible.

        The sad part is that I would have been her slave if she'd of just asked...but she would rather have just emotionally abused me instead.

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  • Yep he's a creep trust me I am also like this guy execpt I don't tell the people I become attached too that they are jerks for not getting my way on the calls and texting because I am already relentless but I do bring out the verbal abuse eventually also I am a woman beater, a sociopath, a manipulator, I love to get my own way and even though I'm aware of myself and I want to stop my weirdo behavior I can't it's like perminately ingrained into me somehow. I'm a woman but I am also a dangours person to be around most don't know this until it's too late some I even tell I've beat other women and they still come crawling in with the promises that it was their fault not mine and that I would never do what I did to them as long as they behave and don't make me angry.

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    • That's horrible. I guess it's time to say goodbye... but now I'm worried if he doesn't take goodbye well.

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      • I took it terribly bad I put on the manipulation like a mother fucker I tried everything I cried, I begged, I threatend, I made the comment after being exasperated that I decided that she's mine and I'm keeping her she said she's not anyone's I told her I loved her I tried to convince her she loved me also I threatend her with violence and she's very smart and tactful against my skills but she said we can remain friends so now I'm playing a time game to try to sneak my way back into her heart hopefully in time if I act normal enough she will forget how fucking crazy I am. But I am crushed inside and I'm trying to replace her and I'm probably going to let this replacement fuck me soon she is even trying to come see me today I don't know what the fuck I'm doing she is irreplaceable I hope I don't cry after I fuck this replacement woman

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