Is it okay to still have feelings for my first girlfriend?
It's been almost three years since we broke up. It was the last year of high school, and my first relationship, and because of both of those things I was in the mindset of breakup being impossible. Well, it wasn't. We broke up after about half a year. I had an immediate rebound "relationship" that lasted about 2 months. Two years later, I met my current girlfriend, who I just had my 1 year anniversary with. I love her more than anything, including my ex, and would never replace her with anyone. But even though me and my first don't talk anymore, I still have feelings about her. Sometimes I'll have dreams where we just talk, or hug. After such a long time, I still haven't been able to get rid of my love for her. I haven't even had the strength to throw away my only picture of her and a drawing she made me.
Am I a bad person?