Is it okey for a boy to be more tidy than her girlfriend?

I feel like my house is being brought down,I know it does not have to be a saga inorder for a breakpoint to come breaking our hearts. just imagine me being on a choice spree??Just imagine what is the thin line that separates my Lovely Girl and My Tidyness ?? Am confused for real . I do not know how to go about it ,,, My Gal is not tidy at all and every time I ask or remind her about cleaning up her mess what follows next is unrest , wrath of chants ... waah!! Then she starts crying sobbing like making me play empathy then eventually letting it go . Then , I start to think Am I forsakening myself or what?? I do not want to continue with this relationship cause her being messy is like intoxicating my tidyness . What do I do?? I feel cant live for the rest of my life with her just because of untidyness... Look!! I am the one who does the cleaning of her mess each and everytime , in kitchen , bedroom , washrooms.Help me...

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  • Dump her. No point in dating a person who's a pig and a crybaby.

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  • I tend to leave people who can’t handle criticism and responsibility, but the decision is ultimately your’s.

    What are you getting from this relationship?

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  • Do what you gotta do. If she doesn't change then it's probably in your best interest to break up with her. Additionally most people don't change unless they want to do so. You probably won't ever be able to make her change.

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  • Use a little spell check.
    As for your mate.
    If you are not compatible, get out.
    Things wont improve.
    Once a slob, always a slob.

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  • "More then her girlfriend" ?

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  • Of you give in every time she throws her little crying birch fit, then in maybe a yr she will have you whipped and wrapped around her finger. Like the old saying "Are you a man or a mouse ?" Tell her she has one morechance, get her ass up and stop being a lazy spoiled little birch and realize she's in the real world now. Mommy and daddy are not around to get a maid to do for her. She either learns real quick or get the fuck out.

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  • She's a brat. Maybe a good spanking would help.

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  • Evict her slovenly ass.

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  • You've got a choice: accept that being disorganised and mess-blind is part of who she is and learn to live with it, or move on. She's not going to change, so you have to decide if you can (and want to).

    My wife prefers living in a mess (which I'm sure is a reaction to having grown up with a mother who was the exact opposite). I prefer things tidy, but I sure as hell don't go running around after her picking stuff up. Life's just too damn short to sweat this small shit.

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  • As long as she cleans her sex toys unlike that one person.

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    • It's called seasoning. Sort of like how you're supposed to never wash a cast-iron frying pan, but just let the natural non-stick coating build up.

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      • Oh. I was thinking back to that post about a sex toy chest label where OP had a bunch of moldy shit.

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      • You raise a good point there, Booj. Too much soap kills the mood. I'd say to just roll a condom onto the dildo. Slippery fun at its best.

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